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Divorce breakups and Child support. How it affects the family.




Many experts in child development and family studies suggest that, in an ideal scenario, children benefit from having two involved and supportive parents in one home. The presence of both parents can provide emotional, financial, and practical support for the child. This can contribute to a more stable and nurturing environment and the potential for positive role modeling from both parents.


Many people believe that reasonable parents should be able to work out a fair and reasonable child support arrangement without legal enforcement. Open communication and cooperation between parents can contribute to a healthier co-parenting relationship and provide financial support for the child's well-being.


Divorce and breakups can have an emotional impact on children. Family restructuring can be challenging for them as it involves significant changes in their living arrangements, routines, and the dynamics between parents. Children may experience a range of emotions, including sadness, confusion, anxiety, and sometimes even guilt.

The idea behind child support is to prioritize the child's best interests and provide them with the financial support they need for a stable and healthy upbringing. Courts typically consider factors such as the income of both parents, the child's needs, and the standard of living the child would have had if the parents were together.

Child support is intended to serve the child's best interests by ensuring they receive financial support from both parents, regardless of the relationship between the parents.


Child support isn't meant to be a tool for vengeance or to settle personal disputes. When child support becomes entangled with emotions of revenge or hatred between parents, it can have negative consequences for the child. The primary focus should always be on the child's well-being and ensuring they have the financial resources necessary for a stable and healthy upbringing.

While some argue that active parents already involved in their children's lives may not need the same level of legal enforcement, others believe that financial contributions are essential for the child's well-being, and the responsibility should be shared.


Some fathers ( In some cases, the Mothers) who are actively involved in their children's lives may feel they already contribute significantly to their children's well-being through direct financial support, such as covering educational expenses, extracurricular activities, and other needs. They may believe that additional court-ordered child support is redundant. In cases where custody arrangements are disputed, a parent may feel that child support orders are influenced by factors other than the child's best interests. This perception can lead to a sense of unfairness.

Absent or non-involved parents are typically still held accountable for their financial obligations towards their children. Parents should take responsibility for their children's well-being without legal intervention.


Choosing the right partner and ensuring compatibility before having children is crucial to family planning. This decision involves not only considering the romantic aspects of a relationship but also evaluating factors such as shared values, life goals, parenting styles, and communication skills.

The decision to have children involves a long-term commitment. Both partners should be reliable and committed to actively participating in the responsibilities of parenthood. Discussing these factors and ensuring alignment can contribute to a more stable and harmonious family life. While no relationship is perfect, thoughtful consideration and open communication can lay a solid foundation for a successful and fulfilling parenting journey.

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