"A Community Treasure Remembered. Brother Ray Dejon’s Legacy of Light and Laughs"

When most of us received the news that our beloved Brother Ray Dejon had transitioned on July 14th—a day before his birthday—it hit us hard. For those who truly knew Brother Ray, we know he was one of a kind. His presence, personality, and purpose left an unforgettable mark on everyone he encountered.

I want to take a moment to offer my personal reflections, though I believe many share these same sentiments. In 1987 I first met Brother Ray in Corona, Queens, New York—back when the barbershop was the heartbeat of the community. If you know, you know: the barbershop was more than just a place for a haircut. It was where men talked like men, shared their truths, cracked jokes, and showed each other love. And that’s where Ray stood out.

What immediately struck me about Brother Ray was not just his humor, but his heart. He had overcome some tough personal challenges and turned his experience into purpose. He became a drug counselor at Elmcor, working alongside Lou Benson and working at Rikers Island to help those struggling with addiction. That takes a special kind of strength. Ray had a heart big enough to want to see others win, to help them climb out of dark places, and to believe in their potential when they couldn’t see it themselves.

But Ray didn’t stop there—he continued to evolve. From picking up a pair of clippers and cutting hair at Studio 1, to modeling at the Apollo, and eventually stepping into his destiny as a powerful host and speaker, Ray was always uncovering new gifts within himself. His natural charisma and sense of humor made him the life of any room.

Ray also showed love to me personally when he brought Video Music Box to my first business—my barbershop salon, Von’s House, in Corona, Queens. He helped advertise my shop, and for that, he will always be appreciated.

Whether it was a fashion show, a comedy event, or a major concert, Brother Ray could host it all—and he did it with style, grace, and authenticity.

In one of his interviews, Ray shared how he got his start in the industry:

That shot changed everything.

Brother Ray went on to host shows and events alongside hip-hop legends like Biz Markie. He graced platforms across the city and beyond—fashion shows, comedy events, and cultural gatherings. His dream became his reality. And in doing so, he taught all of us something: when you tap into your purpose and walk in your gifts, doors will open.

One of Ray’s most impactful ventures was Laffaholics, a comedy platform he founded in Brooklyn. He filled rooms with laughter, joy, and energy—celebrating birthdays, community milestones, and everyday life with humor that healed. He also helped usher in a new wave of comedians by hosting stand-up shows at movie theaters and clubs. We all remember the days of Bentley’s, the Shadow, Demaras—and of course, ending the night with breakfast at the Buccaneer Diner. That was the era. And Ray was right there, making memories with us.

Even if you didn’t know Brother Ray personally, his story reminds us all of the importance of friendship, community, and believing in our potential. He showed us that no matter where we start, with faith, perseverance, and a generous spirit, we can rise. We all have talents, gifts, and callings—Ray simply had the courage to use his.

To his beautiful family, his children, and his grandchildren: thank you for sharing him with us. He leaves behind not just memories, but a legacy. May God be pleased with every life he touched and every laugh he gave. And to Brother Ralph McDaniels—thank you for giving Ray that first opportunity on Video Music Box, a platform that lifted so many before there was ever an MTV or Instagram. You made space for a brother to shine—and shine he did.

Rest in eternal peace, Brother Ray Dejon. You put Corona, East Elmhurst, and Brooklyn on the map—and you represented New York City with pride. We love you. We thank you. And we will never forget you.

Love & Peace Always.